The world lost a beautiful, creative soul yesterday. Our lives will never be the same but they are infinitely better for having known and loved Ken. He fought brain cancer valiantly for 21 months and taught us to cherish the time we have together and to find joy in the moment. We will love you always and hold you forever in our hearts. ♥
Sunday, May 23, 2021
Sunday, September 06, 2020
Surgery Anniversary
Today marks exactly a year since Ken's brain tumor surgery. It's one of those moments that cleaves our life distinctly: Before. After.
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| 9/6/2019 |
Weeks later, we began to work the chemo & radiation 'program,' it was like we were living a life adjacent. The rest of the world kept going but we were on another path that moved differently, like those conveyors you stand on in long airport hallways. People bustled by us unburdened and able to plan months or years ahead, while we thought in only 6-week spans between MRI appointments.
Even though you know logically there are no guarantees for how long you and your loved ones will walk the Earth, the great delusion is that there will be enough time for everything as soon as you get "this" or "that" done. Caring for someone with a brain cancer diagnosis has taught me how my assumptions about what I thought would always exist and how time would progress were ridiculous.
Most of our community of family and friends, rose up to meet us in a way I could never have dreamed. People really show you who they are in times like this and to feel held & supported so that we could feel all our feelings, be vulnerable, rely on ready-made-meals, childcare, transport--it was a welcome relief. The people who show up and the gestures of kindness are so appreciated, even though it’s a weird time and I know it’s hard to always know what to say.
But through the winter we stayed on our conveyor, still separate from the rest of the world. Needles of dread, anxiety, isolation and helplessness randomly pierced our fragile stability. I would then scramble to patch it and reset our life again. In February, the confluence of a panic-induced clinical trial search and a meticulously-planned Disneyland trip nearly broke me. We thought we’d find a wondrous solution in a clinical trial but we actually came to see these were all science experiments, which indeed moved the study of cancer forward, but weren’t really viable treatments to count on. It was tough to accept. However, the trip--laden with what-if-this-is-our-last-trip poignance--turned out more AMAZING than I imagined and gave us a big win.
Then something really weird happened: a global pandemic struck. Suddenly all those feelings that I had felt since September, weren't just mine alone anymore. In a way, we all were/are on the conveyor belt together with this new scary disease. Homeschooling worked out okay and Ken helped teach the math parts which I was ever grateful for. Gliding into summer, we had hoped for some relaxation but it was not to be. In July, a new chemotherapy treatment unexpectedly sparked a severe pancreatic reaction and sent Ken to the ER/hospital for 10 days over a course of two weeks. It transported me back to the bleary days after his surgery, struggling to grasp new medical information. But at 7 weeks on now, things are stable--even, dare I say, positive as we got a slice of good news this last week.
So here’s two things I have come to realize on this significant anniversary:
1. People walk amongst us with experiences and conditions we have no idea about. To be aware and sympathetic to this is to honor people showing up in what ways they can. I never had any realistic conception of what a cancer diagnosis meant, even though I knew friends, neighbors and relatives who had been diagnosed with cancer. Being in it every day with Ken though, seeing how it impacts your loved one and family, keeping track of so many meds/appointments/procedures, learning everything about the disease but still not knowing enough, feeling like you’re looking over your shoulder waiting for the other shoe to drop at any second is completely humbling and it changed the lens that I look at life through.
2. So that leads me to the second thing, what we do with the time we have defines us. Despite his very serious condition and the pass people would grant him to pull into his shell to focus only on himself for the rest of his days, Ken has not done that. Within a month of his surgery, he ran a 5K and raised money benefiting pediatric brain tumor research for Seattle Children’s (which he’s doing again this month too!), earlier this year he volunteered with Doctors Without Borders to redesign their clinic signage about COVID-19 precautions and worked with translators to make those signs into several different languages and working part-time now at Google he is focused on a project with Morehouse College in Atlanta to help design a data platform to measure the disproportionate impact of COVID-19 on communities of color. I also see him doing the work to be a helpful ally to LGBT+ folks by advocating at work for inclusivity and software designs that consider gender spectrum and non-binary individuals. I see him open himself up to learn how to deconstruct deeply embedded racism in our systems, habits and perspectives and to use his position to push for changes. He is spending his time making the world better than when he found it and I couldn’t be more proud.
But one thing we talk about A LOT is our concern for this country and its future. The civic awareness and participation erupting over the last 4 years in Seattle and around the country is inspiring and we hope people never forget that we all have a role to play in influencing and making our communities safer, inclusive and more just. Voting in this year’s election for sane, scientific and compassionate leadership at the federal/state/local level is key to get us on that path.
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| 8/22/2020 |
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| 9/2/2020 |
Sunday, August 13, 2017
Fig Time 2017



It works!
Wednesday, July 20, 2016
Save the Figs, Save the World 2016: Quadropus Bird Deterrent
To read about previous fig defending efforts and a little more history on our fig tree, check out this 2013 post.
Wednesday, August 21, 2013
Cuz I'm Freeeee--Free Falling
There are also still photos from the jump. My favorites:
| Ken's instructor (Shane), Ken and a guy named Shrik |
| Long way down. |
| Back flip tuck |
| Nice view. |
| Yay for parachutes! |
Sunday, August 11, 2013
Save the Figs, Save the World
| A man and his figs shall not be separated |
| Crime scene #1 |
| Crime scene #2 |
Never mind that even with the birds, harvests have been plentiful.
Never mind that we give away a good amount of fruit.
Never mind that a pound of figs is about $6 at the store.
Oh no--Something must be done to thwart the interlopers!
In our initial two summers here, Ken's made admirable attempts to quell the siege and keep the birds from claiming the precious fruit. He's used reflective tape, full-size stuffed scarecrows, blow up dolls, a bobble head owl and a bird trap baited with suet. But all of these eventually failed because the birds got used to them. It got to the point that he resorted to the "running-outside-to-scare-the-crap-out-of-the-birds" maneuver which also inspired disapproving looks from our neighbors. But this method only worked when someone was watching---and of course no one has time to watch the fig tree all day long.
Operation Fig Shield
So Ken was determined that this year would be different. Clearly he had just not used enough technology in his earlier attempts. He spent the majority of his two weeks off this summer trying to design and prototype a functional solution. He aspired to build a "thing" that would vigilantly watch the tree and detect when these loathsome bandits appeared. Then it would trigger something that would scare the living daylights out of unsuspecting birdies. This posed a complex challenge since he wanted (and I demanded) something that would be more than just a motion sensor.
| Ruining a perfectly good Tupperware |
| Ultimate Garden Ornament |
Ken decided to build his program on the small, cheap and powerful platform of the Raspberry Pi. There is a lot of "magic" that goes into getting all the parts to work together but simply put, the system identifies and knows the difference between an enemy bird, an errant branch waving in the breeze and a 3-year-old child (or exasperated wife) passing through the garden. The program knows what the "normal state" of the tree looks like and then triggers the deterrent only for an avian interloper and nothing else. The deterrent is a small leaf-blower with a "wacky wavy inflatable arm-flailing tube man" duct-taped to the nozzle which fires off for 10 seconds as the birds scatter with fright.
You've undoubtedly seen these at your local Jiffy Lube. Ken had this one made at 1/3 of the scale. Initially this was placed on the garden path attached to a dolly but to really increase its effectiveness, it's been recently strung up in the tree with some bungee cords.
| Scaring birds all day long |
There's also a manual trigger (that we've been mostly using because the system is still learning) that we can access via a URL and just push a button on our phones or laptops to set it off. I won't lie, seeing those little vermin with wings bolt out of the tree makes me smile with delight--and I don't even like figs. An added bonus is that our small berry patch located at the foot of the tree receives protection from the birds by proxy.
| Is it about the figs or is it about vengeance? |
Wednesday, September 21, 2011
Ken quoted in Financial Times Article
Do you know the adage, "When you're a hammer everything looks like a nail"? When you are Ken Moore, everything looks like a Theremin. Case in point: the Wii Theremin & the Kinect Theremin.
Well someone at the Financial Times in London took notice and spoke to him. Here Ken is quoted in the article, "Sonic Boom." It's about how new technology is influencing musical instruments. Yay, Ken!
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Update: I forgot to mention that a music man's work is never done. When we were in Ohio/Virginia earlier this year, Ken was inspired to build his own web drum machine software. You can make beats yourself and you don't even have to be musical (like me.) It's great fun to play around with. Click the image to see it.
[Note: You have to have the latest version of the Chrome Browser to run this app. So make sure you do--link for latest update is HERE.]
Wednesday, June 30, 2010
Surprise Date Night
Monday, June 28, 2010
Scenes from a Marriage
Below is an IM exchange between Ken and myself trying to figure out what we'll get at Home Depot...we're on different floors but both in the house.
Ken: I think our [patio] umbrella can last a while longer.
Not sure what we need yet, except maybe a robot that cuts grass
me: Outdoor Roomba Or a goat
Ken: yeah, a robotic goat!
it eats grass and pushes the lawnmower
me: It wouldn't need to push the lawnmower. It would BE the lawnmower.
Ken: That's why what I said was ironic and funny.
Like a robot that pushes keys on a typewriter.
That's pretty hilarious if I may say so myself.
me: I hear you laughing at your own joke.
Ken: Like one does
me: Do you hear my eyes rolling?
Friday, June 25, 2010
The Wood Anniversary
To the best thereminist and accomplice in love I know.
Monday, June 21, 2010
Happy Father's Day
Saturday, May 08, 2010
Best Date Night Ever
The movie was really good and we watched it at our local theater here in Ballard. After it got out, the night was warmish so we strolled through Old Ballard where Art Walk was happening so all the stores were open late. Folks were out having fun on a Saturday night (I had forgotten what that is like) but we also spotted our favorite local ice cream truck Parfait and had a scoop. It was so liberating to just be together and walking around at night. I know my pre-baby self would have been mortified by how simple and boring that sounds but these times are precious.
We were entertaining the thought of getting drinks but finding the right venue was proving a little difficult. We aren't hipsters or beautiful people (on the prowl) and wanted a welcoming joint to walk into. Sorta tough. But we sauntered over to Ocho where I had heard they have good tapas and drinks. We looked at their menu outside and were waffling about going in when all of a sudden we heard a familiar voice.
Coming up the sidewalk in a dapper hat was our good friend and soon-to-be father Sumeer. His lovely wife and also good friend Suzanne (who is looking fabulous at 34 weeks pregnant) and friends of theirs approached us. What a small world! I could not get over how delightful that was to run into them. When we were supposed to go down to Portland last weekend, among other things I had been planning to attend a baby shower for Suzanne. It was disappointing not to see her then. But man, I just love how there are happy accidents like that in this town. And when we got home, our little one had been well-tended by the sitter and asleep for the night. That's the best Mother's Day gift I could receive.
Thursday, June 25, 2009
Sunday, May 17, 2009
Week in Review
Looking at earrings for Mother.
Even though I am not officially a momma yet, I received cards and presents(!) for Mother's Day which was an unexpected and wonderful thing. It's still pretty amazing to realize I will be in that category soon. Monday--nursery prep, part one: Austin stayed with us for a few days and helped us transform our fully packed office into an empty room for the nursery conversion. He did some major moving of items, Ethernet and speaker cable rewiring and made a pot of chili that is so spicy that Ken must eat the rest of it by himself.- Elimination Training: getting an infant accustomed to using a toilet. Did you know most of the world's children don't use diapers? It can be done if you can pick up on the baby's cues and start associating a sound with going to the bathroom.
- White noise: Did you know a hairdryer can double as a white noise generator when baby needs to be soothed? Facing the dryer away, turn it on and set it next to their head for 30 secs or so. Works.
- Vowel time: This could just be an Emmy thing but she is picking up on vowel sounds. If you catch her in an attentive mood, she will make sounds just like vowels so you just repeat them back to her. She seemed to be repeating them. What is truly amazing is realizing how much they comprehend even at that young an age.
- Burping: Arms up and place baby's chest sort of over your shoulder whilst patting up and down the back. Gets big burps.
- Butt Paste: Moisture barrier to avoid diaper rash. Use liberally.
Monday, December 01, 2008
UPDATE: Wii-mote Hacking--More fun than you know
- Visions of the Future (Dutch)
- Cubed3
- TED Blog (NEW & noteworthy!)
- Boing Boing
- Engadget
- Destructoid.com
- Joystiq.com (NEW & funny!)
- Gameblips.com
- Kotaku.com
- Geek Dad on Wired.com
- Gamespark (Japan)
- Offworld Blog
- 20minutos (Espana)
- Wired.com Blog
- Gonintento.com
- Arstechnica.com
- NeoTeo (en espanol)
- Gratis Juegos (en espanol)
- Blog of Interaction Guru, Johnny Chung Lee (scroll to the bottom)
- Make Magazine Blog
Monday, November 17, 2008
Portland Marathon Video -- Redux
This is the "vision" I had all along for Ken's Portland Marathon video--all of it in one package. There's new video, new photos and some "fancy" titling at the end.
Check it out!


















